But Why? - How a Child’s Curiosity Can Transform Project Management
A surprising project management lesson inspired by a child’s curiosity- and how the 5 Whys technique can help leaders.
Nkem Idonor
4/9/20252 min read
“But why?” she asked, repeating her question.
I was stuck in a loop. My daughter wanted cake for breakfast, and I had to explain why she couldn’t. Each answer led to another “Why?” It went like this: "It’s not healthy.” “Why?” “Too much sugar.” “Why?” By the seventh “Why?”, I paused. I was a little annoyed, but also impressed. She wasn’t being difficult, just seeking the real reason.
Then it hit me. She was doing what project teams often fail to do. She kept asking why to find the true cause of the problem.
Issues come up all the time in project work. A deadline is missed, or too much money is spent. We often blame surface problems: bad talks, unclear needs, or late vendors. But these are rarely the core issues. The Five Whys method helps to dig deeper. It’s a tool to find the root cause, not just the symptoms. Toyota uses it to find and fix problems at their source.
The Power of Five Whys (and Why Teams Avoid It)
The idea is easy. When issues arise, ask "why" five times. Each answer digs deeper to find the real cause. Often, this cause is about how things work. Bad systems, not bad people, cause failures." W. Edwards Deming
But teams don't use this method. Why? They feel they don't have time. They fix the surface issue. They miss the hidden problem. So, the issue comes back. Projects get delayed. People stop trusting the team.
Today's teams are quick. They work in different places and use tools. Not looking closely at issues hurts how they work.
Using the Five Whys in actual projects can be helpful.
Imagine a product launch faces delays.
Why? The final testing took longer.
Why? QA found more bugs than expected.
Why? Developers rushed to finish sprints.
Why? The team felt stressed to show speed after the leaders asked about the work.
Why? Leaders track output, not results.
The core issue is valuing speed over quality. This is not a quick fix for a project. It is a problem for leaders and the whole system. It needs a full solution.
Expert insights and current trends show key data.
A 2023 PMI report says 31% of project failures stem from unclear goals. Root cause analysis is also often missing. McKinsey found that continuous learning boosts agility and execution.
Deming said, "If you can’t describe your work as a process, you don’t know what you’re doing."
Modern projects need more than just post-mortems. They need constant, structured review. The Five Whys method enables this. Keep these tips in mind as you use it:
Focus on the system, not blame.
Involve different team members.
Document each answer clearly.
Keep asking why until the root is clear.
Use with other tools for hard issues. Fishbone diagrams can also help.
Problem-solving relies on the human side.
The Five Whys uses curiosity. We often ignore this trait in adults, but value it in kids. Ask deeper questions and challenge norms. Keep digging to build strong teams and systems.
From my experience with startups and Fortune 200 teams, the Five Whys is helpful. It finds hidden problems and sparks new team thinking. It also changes how teams work and lead.
Final Takeaway
In summary, slow down and look deeper in our fast-moving world. The Five Whys helps us do this. True success means fixing the real problems. Find them at their source.
Next time your project stalls, ask "why" like a child. Don’t stop until you fix what’s broken.




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